The Weird Mental Arithmetic of Masking
Masking and unmasking is a weird equation, and there’s a lot to take into account when doing them.
Masking and unmasking is a weird equation, and there’s a lot to take into account when doing them.
I am a huge fan of lists, but there’s an important problem with to-do lists that I want to talk about.
Lots of us are trained as we grow up to ignore our internal signals of what we need. There’s a lot of different aspects in there to unpack, and I’m going to address one of them.
I want to talk for a moment about how we’re trained in society to conform to this perceived norm, and how it creates anxiety.
People often ask me how to make their life better without changing things. The answer might be unsatisfying, but it’s simple.
If you’re wanting to do something that’s creative but there’s this part of you that’s really resisting, here’s my thought on why.
I’ve gotten back from my vacation, and it’s got me thinking about my relationship with money.
It’s common to start with trying to find people and then work on how to build relationships, but I like to reverse that process.
Holding chopsticks in different ways can make us have different levels of control over them. That same concept can apply to other things in our lives.
If you’re having a real rough time processing information because of brain fog or burnout, here’s a few pieces of advice.
One of my clients asked me recently if he’s not actually going through burnout and it’s just a midlife crisis. It’s a good question, let’s talk about it.
To be able to work through a problem you’re facing, you need to start questioning what the issue is in a new way.
When we say we can’t do something that we actually can do, it may limit our ability to solve the real issue. Here’s a way to take back control.
I’ve been reflecting on my relationship with perfectionism, and if that’s even the best word for what I experience.
There are many parts to the internal work that we do to get reasonably comfortable with people. Here are some common ones.
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