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Social

The Many Paths to Social Comfort

There are many parts to the internal work that we do to get reasonably comfortable with people. Here are some common ones.

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Social

When You Want Friends…and Don’t

Do you have conflicting thoughts about the idea that self-acceptance can actually work as a way to have better relationships?

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Social

Accepting Yourself as A Path to Social Comfort

Self-acceptance is a nice ideal, but how does it practically get you friends?

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Social

Why Most Socializing Strategies Don’t Work

Strategies to increase socializing by dealing with the anxiety, or improving social skills, aren’t bad ideas, but they produce limited, short-term results. Here are two reasons why.

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Social

What Social Comfort Looks Like

A brief, imaginary dip into what “being reasonably comfortable around people” practically looks like.

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Social

People Are Scary

If your default mode is that people are scary, mean, and tiring, but you still long for good friendships and better relationships, I get that. I’ve been there. And there is hope.

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Sensory

Coping with Sensory Differences in Public

How do you cope with sensory needs when you’re out in public? Here’s a framework and a few tips.

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Neurodiversity

Can You Become Neurodivergent?

If things are getting harder, if your brain seems to have more trouble coping, if sensory issues are more intense, it can provoke lots of questions. Was I always this way or did something change?

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Burnout

Unlearning Internalized Ableism: A Short Intro

Do you harangue yourself about the things you should do, even when you’re physically unable and they don’t actually, really, absolutely, need to be done?